[This is the eleventh of 25 factors that may impact the survivability and vitality of your congregation. A new factor is being posted each weekday for five weeks.]
True Friendships, Meaningful Fellowship, and Face Familiarity
Your congregation is more likely to exist ten year from now if it its congregational relationships are about creating and nurturing true friendships. It is marginal or uncertain to exist ten years from now if its congregational relationships stop at the point of being meaningful fellowship. It is less likely to exist if its congregational relationships are primarily about face familiarity.
True friendships are when people know one another, have periodic to regular relationship encounters with one another, have life concerns for one another about which they pray, and consider one another friends who can be called on for various life needs—even at 3:00 a.m. These friendships are long-lasting friendships that may remain deep friendships forever. At the same time they are not exclusive friendships. New people are regularly invited to enter each person’s sphere of true friendships. A person’s true friendship circle should never be an exclusive group not open to others.
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